Some of the most FAQ’s (Frequently Asked Questions) at September’s Bride are about Mothers of the Bride & Groom and what their apparel should be on the big day. Today’s Moms are chic and stylish; they want a gown that makes them feel like that on their son or daughter’s wedding day. To help you, at September’s Bride, we have a Mothers’ Gown Specialist, Bernice, who has helped countless mom
s feel confident and beautiful at the wedding. Bernice is available for appointments; just call us at 616-355-1433.
Bernice Strotter, Mothers’ Gown Specialist
Let me also answer some questions that are frequently asked at our store:
Mom: As the mother, am I supposed to match the wedding party?
SB: No, but you should not clash with them, either. Wear a color that makes you feel pretty and confident. There seems to be alot of angst lately with moms who are trying to coordinate all the colors of the wedding and the other mom with their own attire. Remember that the dresses will not all be hanging in a row at the wedding. There is lovely skin, pretty hair, guys in tuxes, and lots of flowers breaking up the dress colors.
Mom: Who chooses first, the bride’s mother?
SB: Traditionally, the bride’s mother chooses her dress first, and then informs the groom’s mother of the color and formality of her gown; the groom’s mother then chooses something complementary in color and length. Today, however, the lines are blurred with step-moms involved and couples who are from different parts of the country, and sometimes, world. It is still a good idea, however, to allow the bride’s mother to set the standard. The moms do not need to match or coordinate, as long as their dresses are similar in formality. Each mom should wear what makes her feel pretty and comfortable.
Mom: Is black an appropriate color for me to wear?
SB: Yes, black is totally appropriate, especially for a formal, evening wedding. The key is to wear accessories that are more festive than somber. Metallic shoes and handbag would be a great thing to add. A sparkly brooch, chunky pearls, and chandelier earrings, perhaps. For an outdoor, summer wedding, black may look a little out of place, unless it is a black linen sundress. In this case, add a yellow or blush shawl, and you’ll do great!